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ailbhe ([personal profile] ailbhe) wrote2008-09-08 09:16 pm

New Glasses

Opticians' special offers change bloody hourly. Anyway, today I tried a new optician and got much cheaper glasses than my previous n pairs. These ones are gain a flexible frame with light-sensitive lenses and anti-glare and scratch-resistant coating. So what's different? Ladies' frames are all too big for my face and these are CHILD frames. HELLO I AM GOING MAD HERE.

I am not a child. I seem to be a fairly normal sized person, when I look around me. But I wear child sized clothes and eyeglasses, can't cycle most adult ladies' size bikes, need child kit for hiking, camping, etc - it's getting irritating.

I know plenty of people smaller than I am, too, in every direction.

[identity profile] buzzy-bee.livejournal.com 2008-09-08 08:31 pm (UTC)(link)
When I was slimmer I needed child frames as well and what was most annoying was that none of the "buy one get one free" offers applied to child frames because they were mostly free anyway if you were a child. Except I wasn't!

[identity profile] da-pol.livejournal.com 2008-09-08 08:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Problem is that women on the whole are getting larger in every direction, and starting earlier - I see a lot of 10 and 11 year old girls who are about the same size you are these days, so to sell to them you end up with childrens clothes the right size for you.

At least clothes exist for somebody your shape. Try having a chest that says you should be 8 feet tall when you're my size. Sometimes I wonder if I could stick a belt on my shirt and see if I could get away with it as a dress.

[identity profile] da-pol.livejournal.com 2008-09-08 08:48 pm (UTC)(link)
ahh - you *are* me, albeit less cynical and moany.

And seconded on the tailoring.

[identity profile] naath.livejournal.com 2008-09-09 11:23 am (UTC)(link)
Rejoice in your excellent VAT avoidance scheme!

Tailoring, you can haz it. Except that tailoring today costs, as it always has, a significant fraction of the average annual income :-( Or you could sew your own clothes - which would take a large amount of time, another commodity most of us are short on.

[identity profile] sam-t.livejournal.com 2008-09-09 02:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Some of the clothes alterations places near me are pretty reasonable, but of course it depends on what needs to be altered, and you've got to have the clothes already, and they need to be of a quality that won't disintegrate when taken apart. And of course it's a cost on top of buying the clothes in the first place.

[identity profile] naath.livejournal.com 2008-09-10 09:31 am (UTC)(link)
Ah yes. Me too :-)
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[personal profile] rosefox 2008-09-08 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
If you're interested in knitting or crocheting your own clothes or having someone else do so for you, I point you to the Shorties group on Ravelry, where many women have the same complaints and share patterns that work well for short women (including short fat women, short busty women, women with short torsos and long legs, women with long torsos and short legs, etc.).

[personal profile] rjw76 2008-09-08 09:30 pm (UTC)(link)
I know it's only a small comfort, but at least childrens' stuff has less/no VAT. Hurrah for boys' shoes, I say.

[identity profile] miss-corinne.livejournal.com 2008-09-08 09:37 pm (UTC)(link)
Kids glasses fit me a zillion times better, and in general I'm what people would call round :)

With glasses, it's possible to get the stems shortened. I didn't know this until quite recently. Still... kids sizes are better for lenses too, most adult ones give me that ever-to-be-avoided "owl" look.

[identity profile] myfirstkitchen.livejournal.com 2008-09-08 10:51 pm (UTC)(link)
I wear glasses too big and wide for my face at the moment because there's nothing I like in the children's ranges - even though they're what the optician says I should get. My face is small (and head, when it comes to hats), despite me not being a small person (above average height and slim but not tiny build). There really needs to be more of a range in all things, so fewer people have to make do.

[identity profile] the0lady.livejournal.com 2008-09-09 10:43 am (UTC)(link)
I have the same problem as you do with trousers, but with dresses. Nothing I can get on the high street fits AT ALL, so if I really want a dress (say for a special occasion) I have to buy a super expensive one AND THEN TAILOR IT TO FIT.

[identity profile] the0lady.livejournal.com 2008-09-09 10:45 am (UTC)(link)
Oh and also rings. I can't find any adult sized rings to fit me. It's either Barbie-themed jewellery for me, or having rings and bracelets taken in.

[identity profile] the0lady.livejournal.com 2008-09-09 10:48 am (UTC)(link)
And have I mentioned that I'm exactly, precisely and in every respect a shoe size that is not made by any manufacturer in the known universe? I don't mean I'm a 4.5, or a 5 narrow, or a 3 extra wide. I have internally consistent, beautifully proportioned feet that seem to be somewhere between four-and-a-quarter and one-third-to-five.

Mass production, feh.
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[personal profile] rmc28 2008-09-09 02:55 pm (UTC)(link)
My office-appropriate doc martens are the first 'respectable' and comfortable shoes I have owned in years and years (since I was at school probably). They are of course men's shoes ...

[identity profile] the0lady.livejournal.com 2008-09-09 03:08 pm (UTC)(link)
The only grown up watch I've ever had that fit me has a spring bracelet - no strap at all, just two springy bands that partially overlap and can easily fir everything from a tiny to a pretty thick wrist.

Before that I wore ring watches for years and years, because I couldn't get a wristwatch to fit that wasn't from the Disney store.

[identity profile] k425.livejournal.com 2008-09-09 11:05 am (UTC)(link)
I need children's hats and glasses and have some children's clothes that still fit me too. Oh, and hurrah for no VAT on children's shoes...

Catching up on old posts

[identity profile] wingedkami.livejournal.com 2008-09-29 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Meanwhile I struggle to find ladies' bikes big enough for me, and have owned several pairs of men's trousers. I'm not that tall, am I?

Incidentally, if you've ever wondered who those 'one size fits all' things actually fit, it's me. I've no idea why, since not much else does.